Raymond Francis Defrates

Raymond Francis DeFrates of Caro, age 83, passed away suddenly on Friday morning, November 24, 2023 at home. Ray was born October 27, 1940 in Springfield, Illinois, the son of the late Michael DeFrates and Wanda (Maxwell) DeFrates. His journey into the world of business and amusement began as a passion, evolving into a remarkable career where he became known for his incredible ability to entertain and amaze. As a clever businessman, Ray had a vision that transcended the ordinary. His ventures in the amusement industry were marked by creativity, innovation, and a commitment to delivering fun experiences. Ray’s ability to bring joy and laughter through his unique talent was a testament to his charisma and showmanship. It was at the fair Ray happened to meet the love of his life, Ann. Their love knew no boundaries, and their devotion to each other was an enduring testament to the depth of their connection.

Beyond his professional endeavors, Ray was a true gentleman—a beacon of class, dignity, and kindness. He never met a stranger, and his interactions with others were marked by genuine warmth and respect. Ray had a knack for woodworking and carpentry; his hand-crafted pieces were a testament to his meticulous craftsmanship and artistic vision. He loved to tend to the animals and farm he and Ann built together, that they fondly referred to as “The Ranch.” Ray enjoyed riding around on his tractor, playing with his dogs, and collecting the chicken eggs each day. Above all else, his family was the center of his universe; he shared a special bond with his daughter, Dawnie and her family. Ray’s unwavering dedication and sacrifices were proof of his love and commitment. He approached every decision, every action with the well-being and happiness of his family at the forefront of his mind.

Ray leaves to cherish his memory, his loving wife, Ann; beloved daughter & son-in-law, Dawn & Jeremy Warren; sons, Michael & Steven DeFrates; grandchildren who were his world, Zachary (Savana) Allen, Kennedy (Briston) Carver, Reid Allen, Kaitlyn Allen, Alexis Nowak, and Kayleigh (Joshua) Watson; great-grandchildren, Hayden Allen, Griffin Carver, Ramsey Dawn Carver, Ella Allen, Oliver Watson, and Ada Watson. In addition to his parents, Ray was preceded in death by his son, Greg DeFrates and twin brother, Robert DeFrates.

In keeping with Ray’s wishes cremation has taken place and a memorial service will be held on Monday, November 27, 2023 at 4:00 p.m. at the Ransford Collon Funeral Home in Caro with Monsignor Michael Bugarin. The family will be present to receive visitors from 3:00 p.m. until the time of his service. Those planning an expression of sympathy are asked to consider memorial contributions to the wishes of the family, c/o Dawn Warren, 205 West Sherman Street, Caro, Michigan 48723.